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Originally Posted by tore
If you were my brother and spanked my kids, then you'd be teaching them a lesson which I don't agree with; that it's okay for uncle to physically hurt his nephews. To me, it's not okay and I never want my kids to believe that it's okay and so, if you'd done that to my kids, it would've really chilled our imaginary family relationship.
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I understand that, 100%. Let's say if my brother didn't believe in it either, I wouldn't have done it. It's not my place to do something that he wouldn't do himself in the same situation. But knowing that my brother would have done the same thing, I felt it was somewhat appropriate.
But yeah, if you were my brother, and a nephew did the same thing, I would have handled your kid how you would have handled it.
I wouldn't agree with it, but it's not my place to change how the kid is being raised.