Originally Posted by Dirty

But why can't you go without hugs? What I am trying to get at is what is it about hugs that make them so great to you? I've said before, I view spooning, massaging, etc as something that is a pre-sex or post-sex type of thing. Why do you want to press your dick against a girl friend's ass if you aren't gonna get laid? Like, what's the point. I can be a good friend to girls without cuddling with them. I actually view cuddling around with friends as more creepy and weird than anything. I don't need to massage and spoon with someone to let them know I care about them.