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Originally Posted by TheFolkslave
Yeah I know but you have mentioned in other threads how you hug and sleep with your ex.
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Ah, I know. This time I was talking about relationships in general.
I can't have a relationship without hugging and cuddling, I can have a relationship without sex.
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I was just wondering how that works out. I'm asking this since I don't even care about my ex anymore. When I look at her I don't see the girl I used to be with. I just see a stranger that I can't see myself being friends with.
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My ex is still the girl I wanted to be with.
We both feel that way (I'm the guy she wants to be with, not the girl, obviously). It just didn't work out, but we still love eachother an awful lot.
(she tells me she loves me in a chat while I type this, nice timing).
It's not hard to love here. We are supposed to be together, but that doesn't mean it works out. We're not planning to keep trying until we really can't stand eachother anymore. We decided to break up before we got that far.
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Also on other topic discussed. Almost all my friends are girls now since there's only two guys on my class. I don't really think about having sex with them or anything. Does that make me gay? I don't think so but I know guys who think that girls are only for banging.
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As I said, I would have sex with every female friend I have. Doesn't mean that's the only thing I think they are for. They are my friends. But they are beautiful and sweet girls too, so why wouldn't I want to have sex with them?
I don't think it makes you gay. Altough I'm not sure.
It's pretty common here to think that altough boy/girl friendships exist, usually the guy wouldn't mind wanting to have sex with the girl.
Maybe that's a dutch thing. I don't know.