Originally Posted by s_k

Allright, if you don't mind I'm not going to join in this discussion anymore.
I really only wanted to explain Dirty how it works.
I didn't post this for people to criticize the way I cope with relationships.
I'm doing good. I'm really happy with the way I cope with relationships.
I don't hurt anyone with it, not even myself. So I don't really understand why it should be considered a bad thing, as nothing bad comes from it.

Please allow me to be my own strange self. Take what you like, leave what you don't like. I don't mind people not understanding this.
I do mind people trying to convince me to work in different ways. Even if they do this just to help. Please don't tell me how to look at things.
I can't and I won't do it any other way.