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Originally Posted by djchameleon
I don't think he will ever be able to put his foot down about this situation. He is too comfortable with it and a beta male. Everything he pretty much described is that they are all in open relationships and they are fine with it being that way.
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We're not. But we could be. We understand the idea that's behind an open relationship and we see the benefits of it.
And being a beta male? Absolutely not. I'm really critical towards her and don't mind getting in a fight so I can at least be honest.
Her new boyfriend probably is though. Causing her not to be able to ber herself when she's with him.
Being a beta male doesn't work. You have to be equal in a relationship.
But I'm not willing to sacrifice everything just for her. That's probably one of the reasons our relationship didn't work. I wasn't capable and/or willing to change some of the things she wanted me to change. It's really a decision, this. And I'm not taking the path of least resistance here. Had I done that, I would have left her a long time ago when things were really rough.