well basically posting on this other forum about stuff that was going on in my life and not telling her about it. she eventually found out and i was banned from that forum but was allowed to go to another forum that suited me which is this one and writingforums. and so the other day i downloaded yahoo messenger without asking her and that kind of pushed her over the edge. so hopefully she isnt reading my convos on messenger cuz she'd know what ive been hiding from her. and thus concludes the story of my life. hope you enjoyed.