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Originally Posted by dreadnaught
There's a difference between having sex for the sake of having sex and it feeling good, and having sex with someone you want to share the expirence with.
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I may have already pointed this out at some point in this topic, but the way I look at it. I can have sex with any girl I love. It doesn't matter if that's in a manner of friendship or in an actual relationship.
I would never want to have sex with just 'some' girl. One night stands for instance.
The next thing might sound rediculous, but it's true.
I have 8 close female friends.
And all of them are beautiful. I guess everyone would think so, but at least I do. And I would have sex with any of them. Not because I'd like to have a relationship with them, but just because I want to be close to them because I love them. One of the girls would probably make a nice girlfriend for me. But her boyfriend is the nicest guy, I wouldn't want to mess that up. And she uses some pretty heavy drugs now and then. I wouldn't consider her addicted, but still, I just don't want my girlfriend to use any drugs apart from maybe marihuana. And another problem, she absolutely wants to live in a city. And I won't. Ever. I would go mad.
So that's not going to work anyway.
As I said, I'm picky
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Eitherway, what I was on about. Sex, for me, isn't something that should be limited to a relationship. But I'd never ever want to have sex with someone I don't have strong feelings for.