07-05-2010, 10:56 PM
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Fish in the percolator!
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Hobbit Land NZ
Posts: 2,914
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Originally Posted by Lateralus
They're not telling you they find you attractive, they're not coming up to you and saying, "Oh hey, I just wanted to tell you that you're really pretty." Most of the time the wolf-whistles are dehumanising and just pointing out that there is a hot piece of meat walking by. I say this because most of the wolf-whistles I've heard are often accompanied by the guys staring at your ass/boobs or throwing in a few degrading comments which signify that they want to fuck you. It would be different if they whistled and smiled at you nicely and told you that they think you are attractive... but most of the time the whistling is followed by uncomfortable gawking at certain body parts and rude comments.
I've been whistled at before and it always makes me feel so uncomfortable, like I'm just a piece of meat walking past that they all want to fuck.
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Originally Posted by FaSho
Don't get me wrong, I completley understand that logic. Especially when 'degrading comments' are involved. As ignorant as this may sound, and I'm sure there's people who don't agree with me, but in my opinion, if someone says something positive about you/your body, even if it's as brash as "wow you have nice boobs", you may find it awkward and possibly even offensive, but in the back of your head there's a sense of self-worth because even as degrading as it is, someone is still complimenting you, and telling you you look good.
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There are definitely at least some women who will take it as a compliment. But I'm happy that I'm a guy and don't have to deal with the wolf-whistling, ogling and objectification in general... I'm happy I can walk around unheeded.
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