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Originally Posted by MAStudent
However, I had a lot of stress for a while, because we didn't say at the BEGINNING who would decide and how things would be decided, beyond "us 3 will decide".
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exactly, it's a horrible feeling and completely detrimental to what made playing in a band so great in the first place. unfortunately a lot of people are passive aggressive and would rather not be direct in fear of being seen as bossy.
@ AwwSugar - your personal rules and conditions are exactly the kind of stuff that we're getting at in terms of what needs to be discussed as early as possible within the band setting. while they seem perfectly reasonable to me, from the sound of things they likely weren't with your old bandmates.