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Originally Posted by RezZ
Since were on the sex topic here goes a question. How come each time I have sex with someone (and I dont mean anything from 1st to 3rd) afterwords I seem to find them less attractive and slightly more annoying? There not all one night stands, there all different. Does this make me a horrible person? Its one of those things I really have no control over, but am pretty embarrassed about. This is something that will not be leaving the forum, because I am pretty sure its not a good thing.
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I think that might be a natural thing with a lot of people. I notice the same thing in some cases of my own.
Generally if I know a relationship won't be following the deed, I tend to not be looking for the good aspects of the girl, and I guess focusing on the negative aspects is a way to subconsciously feel better about a hit & run. Kind of a self-justification process that helps keep you at a distance because you don't intend on falling for that person.
Usually I don't get that way in a relationship though, so if you do that regardless of the situation, there might be another factor in play.