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Old 09-06-2009, 12:43 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I've only seen a few slugs in my life, but i thought they were the coolest things ever. Lol i am a forest type girl.

I said i didn't really live in fear of anything, but i've been thinking about it and i guess im afraid of rejection...which is weird cuz i purposely do things to alienate myself all the time (and i literally mean, all the time) But when I'm actually trying to be friendly or make a joke or sound smart or something, if the other person shoots me down it totally devistates me. As a result, i seldom try to be friendly, funny, or overly intelligent around people who don't know me that well, due to fear. Also afraid of coming on too strong and scaring ppl away.

hmm i sound really insecure

^^ that seems to be going around cause i'm sure your not the only female that does that. I do that too often and when I get rejected I kinda see red. I end up being stubborn and fight with the person till we both drop the subject or till they admit I'm right even when I'm wrong so than I can come to realization that I was wrong and admitt it to them than apologize to them. Unless I'm really right.

Yes - I'm difficult, so sue me. lol
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