Err... that sucks, David.
My dad always told me the only thing he'd ever ask from me is to not send him to a home... I know eventually I'll be wiping up after him and he's definitely on a road to dementia. I think I'd rather not have to see that day in and day out, but I would want to respect his wishes.
I can't even imagine being prepared to physically care for my dad in that state. I selfishly find myself hoping that if he's to go that route, he expires prior.
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