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Originally Posted by Lateralus
Yeah, I know, it's hard to define. Where do you draw the line? If I think a person is in a relationship, and they fall out of love or fall into love with someone else, they should break the relationship off before pursuing another. It's only fair to the other person.
But then again, a fleeting crush on someone else is totally different to being in love with someone else. So would THAT be cheating? I don't know. I guess it's subjective and depends on the people involved.
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The easiest way to define it is by both people involved in the relationship knowing exactly what each other's boundaries are, and respecting them. There doesn't have to be a guidebook stating it all out in black and white.. That wouldn't work for everyone.
The idea is that you get to know someone well enough to know whether you're crossing a line or not. If you don't know that, then you're in an understandably dangerous position.