Originally Posted by Fal

There's nothing wrong with wanting sex with other people while you're with a partner, there's something wrong when you feel the need to act on that behind their back.



Wouldn't go that far, but yes: cheating is cheating. Girl or boy. If you're in an open relationship then hey nonny nonny, enjoy yourself. If you're in a just-you-and-me relationship it means exactly that. Saying "but it was just with another girl" doesn't really buy you a hail Mary pass.

Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

Agreed.
Everyone has natural feelings that don't simply go away when you're in a relationship. The decision to either act or not act on those feelings is what defines the kind of person you are, and/or the kind of relationship you're in.

When I get into a relationship, I'm expecting it to be exclusive. If a girl decides to fuck around behind my back (and it's definitely happened to me before), I don't lie to myself and say "Oh gee... well we have such a great relationship, I guess I'll let it slide, our love is more important".
Screw that. Cheating is a guaranteed express ticket to getting the fuck out of my life.

Originally Posted by Sansa Stark

I'm down with Jesus, in that case.