Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

I honestly never found myself setting mood music for sex. Even in my longest relationship, which was over 2 years, I found it better to not try and stage the act. It just detracts from things.
Your best relationship sex happens on cue, but is often a result of planting a seed (no pun intended) that flowers during the day.
For instance, little comments to each other, a bit of sexual wordplay here and there, a general buildup of anticipation.. it almost always ends up in an explosive night.
I think the most important thing when sexually romanticizing a woman is focusing on her mind, because everyone knows that's the button you push in order to get her started.
New relationships might be a little more physically based, but eventually, us guys are going to need more than a nice body and a good ass to get our girls going.

Using music is a distraction, personally.
I want to hear the sounds she makes. I want sex to be about us, not some band like a soundtrack to a movie. I think people are too stricken by movie sex scenes that contain music and they think it will help them in bed. Music isn't going to make your sex better.
That job is up to you.