Originally Posted by 333

Ah, I see. Legit excuses for a beginner. You can solve this though with practice, my friend. One of the first things you should do is enjoy yourself and try to relax. Foreplay is sometimes crucial to get things moving along, but if you've experienced the pleasure of in-the-moment, sudden sex, then you know foreplay isn't always necessary. If you haven't tried 69ing, I recommend it before sex. If your problem is visual stimulation, perhaps you should try having some porn on (if the girl doesn't mind). I know that sometimes I get bored with the same routine, and I like some at least playing in the background. As for tips on how to stay hard, you're better off getting advice from a guy. If your attention span is short, maybe you need to switch up positions more often. That or decorate her with shiny objects.