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Originally Posted by Pobodys_Nerfect
Here's a question for the ladies. Lets say for sake of example the person you're with has extremely high stamina and can go on for over an hour. You finish before he finishes, but you can tell that he's getting tired, I mean over an hour of sex is truly an exhausting task even if you're in good shape. Anyways the question I pose is if he eventually stopped, long after you finished, would you consider it rude and wrong that she would refuse to help finish you off? I mean I like to consider sex as the exchange of orgasms, I give you an orgasm, you give me one. This happened to me with my last girlfriend and I'm not going to lie, it was one of the reasons for the break up.
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More times than not, sex becomes absolutely NO fun after girl comes, and having "stamina" isn't always a good thing. After about 15-20 minutes, the only thing going on in a girl's head is, "Jesus, when is he gonna finish?"
From a personal standpoint, if I orgasm first, the only thing I'm doing from that point forward is hoping he comes as soon as possible so that I don't have to keep putting on a show that I'm enjoying getting fu
cked when I'm already well past the enjoyment part and my body just wants a break.
However, I think that, like you said, it is pretty damn rude and selfish to not do everything you can to ensure that they guy orgasms as well.