Originally Posted by lucifer_sam

some girls get a kick out of being the object of male sexuality, not necessarily by being promiscuous but just flirtatious. i personally know quite a few and i tend to stay away from them (or at least try not to satiate their ever-inflating ego). why?

1) they don't respect themselves or the people that make advances on them. i'll see girls that love showing their boobs during beer pong games and i know that they don't respect whatever man they go home to.

2) they're extremely immature and insincere about their sexuality. there is no level of intimacy or ability to get close to these girls, no matter what sexual experience you may have had with her.

they arent always this way that you percieve them to be,....speaking for myself,...sometimes sex is just sex,....sometimes sex is sincere,...sometimes it is not,...there is a time and place for both,...personally sometimes i just need to have sex and i find that for me it is easier to do that than it is for me to open myself up to feeling intamacy,....whatever,...maybe that makes me a wackaloon,....maybe not,....personally i think its more like self preservation

i'm not talking about anybody here personally (so please savannah don't take this as an attack on your lifestyle), but i know girls like this and there is no level of satisfaction that can be achieved by being with them.