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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance
Ok, not trying to piss you off now (even though it is inevitable) but if you think of a drug addiction as a selfish condition, then why do you always bring yours up? I know, I know, you're not addicted anymore, but you were, and you continually bring it up. If you've been in the same place as he has, the best thing to do is to help him get through it as you did. Not just tell him he's being selfish.
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because he always says that he relapsed again, and I ask him why> he say's"oh, cuz I miss you"
that to me is selfish, and he is making me feel like if I was there all the time, that he would be clean?
I am over my addiction for me and nobody else, it is hard, and I know, but I also know that it takes commitment, and I will help him with whatever he needs, but I can't drop my life and job because he is lonely or else.....