ok, i'm done thinking (i've spent a lot of time on this one) and just when i was giving up, i saw this video on vh1...the song i'd like all my friends and family to cry their asses out remembering what a cool person i was (oh God this sounds sick) i mean THE COOL PERSON THAT I AM

, would have to be "One of us"- Joan Osbourne (i don't know any of her songs, i don't even know if she HAS any other songs) but that one's pretty deep.
i'm surprised no one's said anything about "Seasons in the Sun", though