I have a pretty large peer group and I don't feel like it is work to keep them up. My best friend and I went almost a year without getting together and when we finally did it was like we had just seen each other yesterday, this is the way most of my friendships are and I don't really find it taxing at all. The only time I find it an annoyance is if one of them is getting married and wants me in the wedding party or when one of them has a baby, then unfair pressure is applied to get together. Overall it isn't a big issue at my age, everyone is pretty busy with their own lives and understands that I am busy with mine
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