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Originally Posted by Raine
I've always wanted to have kids.
The only thing stopping me from having kids at the moment is the fact that I smoke. Smoking could do damagae to the child. And my weight issues. I'd like to gain at least another four lbs so before I get pregnanat or find outt hat I'm pregnant.
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Your 16. PLus smoking stops most people from gaining weight.. because when there hungry they go have a smoke instead of eating all the time. So stop smoking, gain weight = have child.
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And my doctor says I'm perfectly healthy and aside fromt he cigarettes I'm fine to have a baby. Chances of me dying are slim. No one in my family has died whhile in labor,, no diseases that could keep me from having a safe pregnancy or anything like that.
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Your 16.. What does your boyfriend, and family think of this..HAHA!
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I've seen happy families before adn the result of good parenting as well as bad parenting.
If I were to ever raise a child I think I know enough about being a good parent and my experiences with bad parentiong to make the right decisions concerning the welfare of my child.
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Your 16. if you can go without having a child for a few more years, then why don't you? I mean really sometimes girls get knocked up when there teenagers.. but most times they don't try to. Try being as grown up as you can before you TRY to have a child.. because you may think your all grown up now.. emotionally.. but I'm willing to bet you can still be a imature little brat.. Brats don't need to have there own brats until there grown up.
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However I will agree, sometimes me and my child or my child and it's father will have their differences. It's natural. Like any other relationship there are bound to be arguements. These things happen.
And I'd be a little worried about my kids if they never asked me about drugs or why they can't smoke at whatever age they are even though I smoked at that age.
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