Yep, a full wedding is so stressful for the main participants. I always respected my sister who flat out said: me, plus husband plus the 2 necessary witnesses, then straight down the pub afterwards.
Just one time I gave a Best Man's speech at a formal wedding, and in addition to Guybrush's advice I would say:-
i) sure, say no if it's too difficult for you
ii) if you decide to do it, (a) write the speech together with your neice, so the quality of the speech is not all on you, (b) keep it as short as decently possible, (c) remember that your audience will be well-disposed towards you. All they want is a little sentiment, a quick laugh, then carry on with their boozing.
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