06-18-2022, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Celladorina
After what happened at the pride parade (mentioned in previous posts), I spoke to my mom about it and said that even living in New Zealand I fear going out holding hands with a girlfriend as there are so problematic people out there who have literally beaten couples (regardless of their gender) over it.
On another note, I am genderfluid and go by she/her/they. I present as very feminine but want people to take my genderfluidness seriously. I explain my pronouns but it goes over people's heads. Anyone got any advice regarding this?
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Sorry to be of little help other than to suggest many of those you’d like to comprehend your gender fluidity would require years of psychotherapy to even begin to understand. The trick is to learn who you can be open with and who the mere act of being yourself would place you in danger.
As to the bashers many psychotherapists who’ve had ‘queer bashers’ referred to them by the courts learn the majority are repressing their own ambiguous sexual identity.
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