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Old 03-04-2021, 12:35 PM   #7 (permalink)
TheBig3
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Originally Posted by upperlowerclassaptrenter View Post
But I'm so shy, weird, reserved, and full of insecurities to really bite into the idea. Do you guys have similar thoughts? How do I not be my lame self at concerts? I cant be the only internet age recluse with such thoughts. Is it as simple as 'just go to a concert?' Im 22, maybe I just want to have fun? (when possible)
Are you in a metro region that allows easy access to post-work concerts? Looks like you might be close to Chicago.

In my experience, it's easier to make friends with associations that promote common interests. What are you into? There's usually a MeetUp or leagues in your area you can join. I joined Kickball leagues when I moved to Boston and it was less athletic and more group-drinking.

Knowing what you're interested in talking about to other people should help us (or anyone) help figure out the best path forward.

As for these forums, I've been here off and on since 2004. If you post enough times, it will start to feel like home. Welcome!
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