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Old 12-20-2020, 03:25 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Marie Monday View Post
Damn adi your family sounds so problematic, it must have been horrible growing up in that environment. Luckily you created a new family for yourself by finding love, I guess
Yeah, it wasn't a nice childhood, mostly because my father has anger management issues, homophobia was not my major concern in those times. But it's worse if one of your parents is an alcoholic, which is what my niece and nephew are going through. You would think that if you go through a rather traumatic childhood you would make sure your own kids don't go through something similar. But some people just have problems I guess (my brother was also on the front line in the war so I guess that probably screwed him up somewhat and contributed to his alcoholism, aside from having a bipolar wife and a dysfunctional marriage).

Javier (my boyfriend) is quite surprised how relatively normal I turned out compared to the rest of my family.
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