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Old 10-22-2018, 04:46 AM   #163 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by adidasss View Post
This is something you guys keep harping on about even though I thought the issue was closed in the member picture gallery thread. You spent several pages arguing with me how it was all in good fun and how there's only consenting adults there joshing each other without ever actually checking if the target of this "joshing" was cool with it.
Turned out, he wasn't. :/

So, you know, like to little children, I have to explain (again) that the difference between "kidding around" and abusing each other is if feelings are getting hurt. This should be clear, but apparently your bro culture brimming with masculine toxicity didn't teach you that. People have feelings, and you should be careful with them. :/
Pretty sure that it was quite a bit of a surprise for anyone who knows Lucem. But anyway, as soon as he indicated that he found the ribbing unpleasant, I apologized and never did it again.
Problem solved.
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