When the reserch is so controversial (as many ups as downs and no clear alterior motive for one camp or the other) I just assume it doesn't matter and go with intuition. Intuition is dominant and inescapable anyway. Unless you have severe OCD, your natural parenting habits are going to dominate - but it doesn't hurt to be informed when you're conflicted about an issue.
And I know it's easy to get frustrated and lose it with kids, it's pretty typical. But I don't count that as discipline and I think some people just call it discipline to justify it because they dont want to admit they lost their cool.
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