http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=Cha...en-US:official Google is a glorious thing.
I'm drawing conclusions based on the information you have given.
You're making assumptions about SxEs, in that you're assuming they haven't put thought into their choices, that they don't want to dress the way they do and that they generally don't think for themselves. You're making assumptions that you're not in a position to make (you plainly aren't a SxE yourself and seem compelled to set yourself apart from any subculture. You're extraordinarily like a Goth who goes around saying "I'm an individual, I don't conform to ignoramic mass culture." and then runs off to their similarly minded "non"conformists). I'm basing my statements on broad psychology and the information that you've given me.
We all conform. It helps us get along, even if it's only public compliance. To say that you don't, and to say that you will always dress exactly as you want, talk exactly as you want and voice the precise ideology that you wish to voice is a lie, and a particularly poor one at that.