Hmm..curious, I don't know if women get the same pleasure out of anal as men (who receive I mean), since I think the prostate is the key here, but obviously, as a gay person, I love it (being passive yes). Makes me come super hard. As far as being active, I don't have anything else to compare it with (never been inside a vaginer
) but I'm super happy with that too, even if it does get a bit messy sometimes...
Ass play in general is something (straight) men should explore more. At least a finger when you're coming...it won't make you gay, I promise...