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Originally Posted by Grogsy
I have been a member here for only a short while. I don't login and contribute often but I do read most of the music threads - some of them are really good. However, I don't join in on the other threads much because of the utter sh*te that's posted. I scratch my head and wonder just how old the posters are. This forum is very cliquey too. It's about time somebody had the guts to do something about the tripe that's posted here.
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I agree but the members here will attack you for this because they don't see themselves or how they behave outside of their "group or clique"
People should not have to go to a forum and constantly be bullied and harassed simply because their opinions are not based on the general consensus of the forum which I have observed over the years on this site. When someone does not hold an opinion that is in line with the "group think" mentality of the clique on this site, the clique will gang up and cruelly attack them and the moderators will sit back....and do nothing. Which is sad because I think people enjoy watching others being cruel and nasty to other members here.
You can't
just blame members for why a forum is not operating the way it should be and to be frank thats a easy cop out for someone who doesn't want to take responsibility for a problem that reflects an absence in
leadership. That is not a good leader.
You should be able to maturely admit when you have made an error or could improve on an area when (as a leader) you have been put on notice that something is not right with the way a group is being monitored. Thats what makes a good leader, not someone who blames the "group" and expects changes to be fixed on their own.
Thats not how things change. You have to work at it and put effort in it and especially if you are in a leadership role. If you have this "I don't give a f*** attitude" then that is what the forum will reflect.
If members are posting inappropriate things its not fair to
only blame members for that when there are moderators here that can easily put that in check. The moderators here do not do that and are not good leaders in operating this forum which is why this forum is the way it is.