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Old 11-30-2014, 06:07 PM   #6464 (permalink)
ladyislingering
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it seems like it must hold some weight. i can't imagine why we would assume it holds no weight when really what the opposite sex thinks of your appearance
I guess a better way of putting it would be "the secure woman doesn't care what the opposite sex thinks of her" but now that I think of it, this issue isn't just a heteronormative concept, so I guess, mainly, what I'm getting at is that if the person who's criticizing you isn't your significant other, who gives a fuck what they think?

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for instance this woman at work got mad at me cause i called her a whore but really i wasn't being malicious about it she just didn't like the way i worded it so bluntly. she was being a whore and talking to me and this other dude about her sex life and how she had 2 boyfriends even when she was in kindergarten and i said "damn, so you've been a whore since day one basically."
To be fair, she probably smells like a fish cannery.
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