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Originally Posted by ladyislingering
My neighbor likes to sit downstairs in the stairwell and smoke. It's so gross. She's a kind person and I don't mind her at all (her daughter is quite repulsive, though) but it's really irritating to be coughing before I can get my own door open. I get that it's not my place to judge them or whatever, but they could at least have the decency to do it somewhere else.
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She probably doesn't realize that it's affecting other people when she does that. I used to smoke outside in front of my dorm until an RA told me it was going into people's windows and there were complaints (used to smoke quite a bit). I had no idea I was doing this, I was just being lazy and not going too far out from my dorm. So I walked twenty feet away to a bench nearby and I could smoke in peace without bothering anyone but passersby. Bam, new smoking spot. So I'd talk to her about it (politely I might add. Probably didn't need to tell you that but it makes a huge difference) and it's likely she'll find a new spot, especially since you two seem to already know and like each other.