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Originally Posted by WhateverDude
I don't feel like I'm less valuable or anything like that it's just something I feel insecure about. Not necessarily here but I've been assaulted/mocked/you-name-it literally every time I've ever gone out in even a remotely feminine way. Even just body language gets a rise from some people so I've just been kinda conditioned I guess to repress myself. I think it's made me a little paranoid and distrustful.
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I can't even imagine how hard it is to test the waters for yourself when you are dealing with the public eye. People can't be total nasty ****s if you don't fit their ideals of societies norms. It takes a lot of support to go through the process because there always will be judgements.
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Sometimes yeah. It's really off and on which is the most frustrating thing about it. I feel like if I were truly a person who wanted to live life as a woman or presenting as a woman I'd be more sure of myself. All of the trans people I've ever met and talked to have been way more sure of themselves than I am. At the same time though I'm pretty unsure of myself in general.
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I know for sure that you are not the only one not sure about it. It might be because you haven't had the right environment to try doing it full on. There are loads of men out there who wear make up and female clothing in secret. But I'm not that clued up on the process so it might be worth talking to a trans person?
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Yes and no. I am attracted to women/people who present as female/feminine-men but at times yeah, I definitely just try and be one of the guys once in a while. I don't think anyone's ever buying it though, I know I don't. That said I can say without doubt that I am a lusty bastard haha.
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I kind of guessed, but you are allowed to be attracted to whoever you like (obviously not children ffs). Don't feel like you have to act out anything on MB, you can be comfortable on here to talk about your true desires. Why do you think I have only ever talked on here about my questionable attraction to women?
