The trivialization is alarming. Women everywhere are terrified that if they turn down a man, they could be killed. And that if they are killed, no one will care because they will feel bad for the murderer that didn't get laid. This is especially terrifying because I have personally been in situations where men have expected me to just give it up because they wanted it and I could have done nothing if they had chosen to react in a violent manner because they were so much stronger than me and I was drinking. This is all terrifying and alarming and now I have to, as a woman, be physically, mentally, and emotionally prepared before I say "no" to a "nice guy."
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