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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216
i will be very candid n honest here as i am very wise when given the chance and ppl should heed my advice
this behavior you describe is exactly what i went thru when i was like 20 so this was yrs ago. im guessin this is his first 'serious' relationship. at some point u may just start feelin insecure for whatever reason or unsure of the relationship in general. maybe ya feel like its a mistake and there could be glory out there elsewhere. maybe ya feel like you dont deserve the other person, etc. who knows.
the girl i was with at the time had sex with quite a few more ppl than me. that was a problem for me, not sure why. maybe an ego thing at the time cause i wanted to bang other chicks and felt like i was wasting that chance being with her a little bit. and its just a thing with guys in general, u can ask whoever u want. in Plug the other nite, myself and a member who shall remain nameless were talkin bout his girlfriend and he said he was dissapointed he wasnt the first guy to put it in her butt. i bring this up as a way to show the mindset, not sure really what it means tho but im not sure. i lol @ the slut-shaming crowd but guys are territorial and there is nothin wrong with being turned off by someone who is slutty. for me i couldnt get over that i fell for, and started dating someone who was just supposed to be a one night stand type of thing. it made her seem cheap to me but i knew she wasnt after i knew her better
so anyways after my relationship with this girl ended for totalyl different reasons i was able to process things in my brain much clearer after some time had passed. i was creating a situation where i had the power in the relationship. in reality i didnt need the reassurance. i did at first cause it just felt good and made me feel special. after awhile tho it was just about having her always be thinkin about me and creatin this ****ty dependence thing. its hard to explain i guess but it was just an immature relationship that i learned from and now i strive for glory
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I get that guys are territorial but I'm not going to apologize to him for something i did years before we met that doesn't affect the way I feel about him or the way I treat him one bit. A single drunken fvck does not a slut make. I make allowances for his insecurity and immaturity all the time but he seriously needs to learn that there are certain things that only bother him because he lets them bug him, and it's not my job to fix it for him. I work with little kids, I don't need to deal with them when I get home too. You're right though, this is his first serious relationship.