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Originally Posted by hate paper doll
I have literally been on the phone with him for six hours and I'm shaking right now, I'm so mad. No matter what, i'm wrong. I tried to apologize, tried to tell him that I'd try to be more considerate. Doesn't matter. Then he starts asking questions about people I've slept with in the past. I try to explain to him that you shouldn't ask questions if you can't deal with the answer but he won't drop it. So I answer his questions and he expects me to apologize for a one night stand I had years before we met and has zero bearing on our relationship. I refuse because I don't think I did anything wrong and he proceeds to tell me that's slutty and disgusting to him and the fact that I don't agree with him upsets him. Then I told him to fvck himself and hung up, and now I want to just scream. This is all such bullsh1t, i'm over it.
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i will be very candid n honest here as i am very wise when given the chance and ppl should heed my advice
this behavior you describe is exactly what i went thru when i was like 20 so this was yrs ago. im guessin this is his first 'serious' relationship. at some point u may just start feelin insecure for whatever reason or unsure of the relationship in general. maybe ya feel like its a mistake and there could be glory out there elsewhere. maybe ya feel like you dont deserve the other person, etc. who knows.
the girl i was with at the time had sex with quite a few more ppl than me. that was a problem for me, not sure why. maybe an ego thing at the time cause i wanted to bang other chicks and felt like i was wasting that chance being with her a little bit. and its just a thing with guys in general, u can ask whoever u want. in Plug the other nite, myself and a member who shall remain nameless were talkin bout his girlfriend and he said he was dissapointed he wasnt the first guy to put it in her butt. i bring this up as a way to show the mindset, not sure really what it means tho but im not sure. i lol @ the slut-shaming crowd but guys are territorial and there is nothin wrong with being turned off by someone who is slutty. for me i couldnt get over that i fell for, and started dating someone who was just supposed to be a one night stand type of thing. it made her seem cheap to me but i knew she wasnt after i knew her better
so anyways after my relationship with this girl ended for totalyl different reasons i was able to process things in my brain much clearer after some time had passed. i was creating a situation where i had the power in the relationship. in reality i didnt need the reassurance. i did at first cause it just felt good and made me feel special. after awhile tho it was just about having her always be thinkin about me and creatin this ****ty dependence thing. its hard to explain i guess but it was just an immature relationship that i learned from and now i strive for glory