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Old 05-06-2014, 02:57 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Cicatrice View Post
I would change small things, such as bad habits, and such, yes. Major personality changes though? Probably not. Aside from working on my somewhat quick at times temper.

I've been in a relationship for a year and a half with my current girlfriend, and I've made small changes throughout the relationship, and so has she. And I've worked on the aforementioned temper issues; And have gotten much better control over it now.

Honestly though, I find myself wanting to change these things that I see in myself to make myself better for her. Personality wise, I am the same person I was before we started dating, though.

As for changing for someone I'm not in a relationship with, I'm not sure. I guess if I smoked I could be respectable and not smoke around people, yes. When I'm around people who don't cuss, I try to not cuss, and so forth.

Pretty much this. There's always room for improvement and if I was doing something that hurt a person I love, I'd change it. There are certain aspects of my personality I can't change. My deeply ingrained values and beliefs will probably never change. However, I'd do what I could to be as respectful to someone as possible in those instances.
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