Scarlett O'Hara

1. I've noticed in my daily living activities, that girls and guys can be rather possessive of their girlfriends/boyfriends, quite unnecessarily. Would you guys consider yourselves in that boat with your partners? Do you get annoyed at your boyfriends talking to beautiful girl 'mates'?

For example:

I was in the pub the other night, and I ran into a guy who tried kissing me about a month ago even though he had a girlfriend, who treated him like ass. So we were chatting away and the gf comes over, he introduces me and she says "yeah I know.", looks around without looking at me in the eyes, and then starts complaining about the pub and walks away. He shrugs and says "sorry she gets mad when I talk to other girls."

Is this acceptable? I think not. Fair enough to not flirt with other people, but if you're only just talking to someone then what's the problem? Surely you can trust the one you are with? If there's no trust, then theres no point in being with them.

Maybe it comes down to how insecure the possessive individual is? I would be very interested to hear your views people! How secure are you about yourselves?

2. Has anyone been the victim of having your boyfriend/girlfriend stolen off you, or have you been someone who has done that? What, when, where, why, how?

/to tune of Ashlee Simpsons ear mortifying song.

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