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Originally Posted by Christian Benteke
Think a lot of men would, ones my age anyway. A lot of lads I know think she is not 'wife' material if she does that.
I don't even think it's necessarily a conquest thing, just that some lads will not want to commit to anyone who met you one night and sucked you off in a field within three hours.
My own opinion: People can do what they want.
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Good point. When I was younger, I found that many guys didn't see me as 'wife' material. Even now people can't see me being a wife, I'm apparently the 'mistress'. The same goes for children, some say that I wouldn't suit having a kid. I think partially the problem is that I look really young (~18) and they can't believe it when I tell them I am 26. I was in the pharmacy yesterday and the lady there was shocked at my real age. I am known for being very career focused and honestly, I don't feel I'm ready for both motherhood or getting married. I'm going off topic here, but this is related to how you approach a guy. If you come off sexually charged into a few times of dating, the guy will enjoy it but not see you as a girlfriend material. Studies apparently show that men tend to go for women who look and behave similar to their mother. I don't know if that's true or not.