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Originally Posted by Rjinn
Again, you're judging by the people. If all that means to you is crowds you don't want to be a part of then yes you're wasting your time. The amount of people if anything shows a greater respect to the person who has died, and you get to be a part of that. It's just a strong traditional way.
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I would rather just not though and pay my respects in my own way. I feel like people show up to these things out of a sense of moral obligation more than anything. If they don't show up then they get raked over the coals. "Why weren't you are such and suchs funeral?"
You show up more for the people that will see that you showed up rather than for the person that passed away.