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Originally Posted by Rjinn
It doesn't matter about how the person feels, we're talking about the symbolization of a funeral. You can go in there with a machete slice open your chest and rip your heart out cry boo, that doesn't change what it is initially representing.
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The meaning behind the symbolism is still for the people that are living not for the person that has died.
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Originally Posted by Rjinn
So how is that different from grieving at a funeral?
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The difference is that you are doing it on your own time and when you are ready to. Not being forced to do it at a scheduled time just because everyone can get together at that specific time.
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Originally Posted by Rjinn
If they didn't give two ****s they wouldn't be at a funeral. They'd be on a family holiday in hawaii.
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My point is that they only care when it's too late. They only gather when someone has passed in bad times instead of putting together a family reunion to have good memories at.
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Originally Posted by Cheese
The bit the annoys the shyte out of me is how at a funeral everyone says what a great person the deceased was...ffs if the person was a c*nt don't lie about it...I'd expect nothing less at mine should anyone even show
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I saw a comedian joke about that.
He said grandma was a loving wife, loving mother and racist piece of s
hit.