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Originally Posted by djchameleon
It's not so much buying their attention, it's more about you being in a bar/club and offering to get them a drink that would help them relax a bit so they aren't so nervous/shy about talking to you in the first place. I know that only applies to shy people in general but I think that's where the custom comes from. When people have some liquid courage they are more open and likely to be talkative.
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I suppose, but women can make the choice themselves of whether or not they want to open up to get to know someone. You don't need to "buy" them the chance to open up and be talkative with you, if somebody wants some liquid courage they can buy it themselves/make that decision for themselves. This is how I just personally feel when people offer to buy me a drink.