Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

If I were in my yard, minding my own business and entertaining guests, and you strolled in out of the blue and told us you wouldn't hang out with us even if we invited you, I'd call you a few choice words and kick your ass out for all the good you did.

Do you think that would be an inappropriate response to someone who could have just walked past without feeling the need to declare that they didn't want to be there when no one asked them to be in the first place?

In case this analogy is a bit too difficult to transpose, telling someone TL;DR is antagonistic for absolutely no reason. The fact that you're surprised at the response either means you really have no clue, or you're intentionally trying to bait people into lashing out at you. In either case, your behavior is what needs adjustment, regardless of whether you think we're addressing the other side of it or not.