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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah
Being distraught is probably not going to do much for you, other then exhaust you emotionally...being in love is taxing in and of itself without all the extra, repugnant self deprecation that is probably being tossed around your brain right now... so go easy on yourself slugger...
YOU WILL LEARN FROM THIS.! you are already learning from it, I can tell by the the emotion in your post... because you feel like a complete douche knocker, you should be able to really learn from it and draw from it later in life...
and something, I want to place out on the table, and I am only stating this because it is something I HAVE EXPERIENCE with... falling in love with someone with terminal illness, is a very complicated thing... the ins and outs, and the nuances of it are, not exactly as black and white as they are with relationships where both parties have a...ahhhmm a long life expectancy... now, I don't know how your lady friends health is, but just remember that.... and BE KIND to yourself....
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I think you're my favorite friend on MB. It isn't terminal, I hope. But I understand, and I'll take it easy on myself, I promise. Thank you very much Rox
