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Originally Posted by Vanilla
Because of people like you. I think he's better without your friendship, I know I would be. Someone coming out of the closet doesn't mean he's lied its just his sexuality which shouldn't affect your friendship because you're not his partner! Let me guess I'm a troll too right for being more logical than you?
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I called the other users a trolls b/c one made a silly reference about ***s & the other wanted to know what type of porn I watched, which has nothing to do w/ my thread. You on the other hand are not a troll, you're just an extremely sensitive user that views every word I type as a personal attack towards yourself. Thank god for your opinion as you know it's the first thing I think of when making an impt decision in my life.
& if you honestly believe that someone hiding their sexuality & pretending to be something they are not is normal, then you're excuse for "logic" is a silly & insane
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Originally Posted by PunkKitten138
Your friendship is not 100% fake because he didnt tell you that he was into guys. Its just one part of the relationship that he didnt feel you needed to know. Maybe you two were not as good of friends that you had thought you were. But it doesnt mean it was 100% fake.
I think your feelings are hurt more then anything and you dont know how to handle it.
Shrug it off and move on with your life. When he wants to tell you, if he wants to tell you, he will.
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Lol, my feelings aren't hurt, at this point this is more about me trying to figure out how I was so stupid that I didn't see that this guy was gay & I didn't know this person. To me this would be the equivalent of a parent never telling their kid that they are adopted & they found out from someone else, the point it makes you reexamine what you knew about this person & kills the trust & more than anything I dislike liars so there's no coming back.
And yes pretending to be straight is lying & if you disagree, fine, but to me it's abnormal.
/end thread