Personally I think the tagline in Vanilla's avatar is ironic, because she usually goes out of her way to protect people's feelings, from what I can see. Just as someone on the outside lookin' in that is; I don't know what goes on in that secret hut in the backwoods of Canada where you meet and there's a big sign up saying "Mods only" (leading, I believe to some confusion in the eighties when Sting and the cast of Quadrophenia turned up and couldn't understand why they weren't being allowed in!) and that's guarded by four bio-enhanced bears --- oops! I've said too much, haven't I?
