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Originally Posted by Hermione
Oh yeah. I am a very candid person and well I've had a tumultuous life/past few years and it seems most men I befriend will try to be my ~rescuer and end up romantically interested in me and I don't like it. That's not the kind of relationship I like between friends. Women understand that when I'm complaining about how fucked up my life is, I just want to bitch, I don't want my life fixed. I do the fixing myself.
I only trust women when it comes to my truest feelings because they never judge me, call me weak for having feelings, or care if I'm embarrassing the shit out of myself drunkenly. They don't try to sleep with me if I'm calling them up at 4 am because so and so is a nasty bastard who just doesn't get it. They do get it though.
I also judge the fuck out of women who are the type to denigrate other women in favour of male friends. As if they'd really be ~one of the guys~
Oh yes, you're so great because you're not like those other girls! Nah,I don't think so, step a toe out of that rigid cast you've put yourself into and you're chucked. **** that
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I'm pretty confused by this because no matter how hard I try I can NEVER pull myself away from the status of being ~one of the guys~ I don't wanna be one of the f
ucking guys, I would rather have sex with them. I'm just confused because you make it sound like it's a choice when I just geniunely gel better with men than I do women. I don't have much in common with women when it comes to interests so why would I hang out with them?