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duga · 08-13-2012, 04:39 PM

I definitely agree with anticipation. It's hard to imagine how drastic a change it really is once you are done with college, but if I had known things would get this complicated I would have tried to enjoy myself more during my university years.

I won't give you advice one way or the other about your girlfriend, but I came to college under similar circumstances. If you are going to stay together, give each other space. Go out and meet your own friends. This is ESSENTIAL. I was in school for a year before she started, so I had a ****ing BLAST my freshman year. Then she came, it was cool for a while, but she ALWAYS wanted to be around me. She didn't want to make her own friends and I ended up feeling a bit resentful. I didn't break up with her for a while because I also felt like she came to my school for me and I felt obligated to be with her. It wasn't much fun.

As for everything else...you will feel out your own college experience. Just be open and have fun. I smoked bud every day and still got a degree in genetics, so a school/life balance is definitely possible. I went to Purdue and I partied at IU a few times, so I feel like you will probably have a similar experience to me.

I'm still at Purdue for graduate school and it's orientation week for all the freshman. It's always entertaining to see all of them running around lost and intimidated, huddling together in their little orientation groups. Oh, if they only knew what was in store...

08-13-2012, 04:39 PM	#13 (permalink)
duga MB quadrant's JM Vincent Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 3,762	I definitely agree with anticipation. It's hard to imagine how drastic a change it really is once you are done with college, but if I had known things would get this complicated I would have tried to enjoy myself more during my university years. I won't give you advice one way or the other about your girlfriend, but I came to college under similar circumstances. If you are going to stay together, give each other space. Go out and meet your own friends. This is ESSENTIAL. I was in school for a year before she started, so I had a ****ing BLAST my freshman year. Then she came, it was cool for a while, but she ALWAYS wanted to be around me. She didn't want to make her own friends and I ended up feeling a bit resentful. I didn't break up with her for a while because I also felt like she came to my school for me and I felt obligated to be with her. It wasn't much fun. As for everything else...you will feel out your own college experience. Just be open and have fun. I smoked bud every day and still got a degree in genetics, so a school/life balance is definitely possible. I went to Purdue and I partied at IU a few times, so I feel like you will probably have a similar experience to me. I'm still at Purdue for graduate school and it's orientation week for all the freshman. It's always entertaining to see all of them running around lost and intimidated, huddling together in their little orientation groups. Oh, if they only knew what was in store... __________________ Confusion will be my epitaph...