Like others have said, either commit to being with this girl for the long haul or break up with her immediately. A 2 year high school relationship isn't going to stop you from hurting her in a moment of drunken lust or if, and when, you meet someone who makes you question what you want in a relationship/partner. Not trying to denigrate your relationship but that's just how college is, unless of course you are some sort of ultra-faithful lover boy.
In any event, my advice is to do everything and anything that comes your way. Not academically like some have said, more like dropping acid and driving out to the country on a moment's notice. Now's the time to do everything you can, to make as many memories as possible, and to meet as many people with different backgrounds that you have the opportunity to. And always remember that when you think life gets hard, it's not. College is nothing compared to the real world, so don't forget that you're basically spending your last few years as an irresponsible, thoughtless youth who has the world at their feet. Once you're out, things change pretty drastically.
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